Getting around independently can open a new world with work, friendships, and freedom. Building independence takes preparation, practice, and the right tools.
Independence isn't built in a day. If possible, travel routes with your child several times before they go alone. Point out landmarks such as buildings or signs so the journey feels familiar. If you can't ride along, find photos of the destination ahead of time. Knowing exactly what they're looking for reduces anxiety.
Whether your adult child is speaking or non-speaking, language can be difficult to access in unfamiliar settings so a small card they can hand to a bus driver can be a gamechanger. Something straightforward like: "I am autistic. Can you please help me remember my stop?" or "Can you let me know when we reach [stop name]?"
Examine the “what ifs”: what if the bus is late, your child is late to arrive, or the route changed? Role-play scenarios in advance. Help them identify safe people to approach, often an older woman or someone with children.
Use technology. GPS-enabled devices, location-sharing apps, and pre-programmed contacts give families peace of mind without hovering. This is a good way to increase independence while maintaining a safety net.
Many areas offer transportation assistance through state or local Division of Disability Services. Before building a plan from scratch, check what's already available in your community. Specialized services, travel training programs, or subsidized rides may already exist. For JoyDew’s favorite transportation providers in Northern NJ, click here.
Start small, prepare well, and celebrate every milestone. The aim isn't just getting somewhere safely; it's building a life where they choose where they go.
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